Posted by ElaineM on August 8, 2006, at 11:31:38
In reply to Another one!, posted by inimitable on August 7, 2006, at 21:00:40
Another club? That's pretty good - espeicially going alone. You sound like you just really want to work on getting comfortable with going out again. I think you're doing really well, Is your T pleased with all you effort?
This guy E does sound a little more with it than Jay. Maybe you tend to attract very shy guys. If E usually gets a friend to pick out interesting girls then maybe he's not too sure about making big first moves. But at least you had a good time, and your number's out there, for future contact. You never know.
About FEELING it, and it not working out before. Do you think before you've got caught up in someone too quickly? I wonder if relationships seem more intimate if they are allowed to slowly develope. [literally, i'm just wondering, I have no good experiences with long-term stuff. Or even short-term stuff for the last few years ;-) ] What do you think?
Have you ever thought about giving out an email address, instead of, or with, your number? If you're coming across shy guys, maybe they'd be more comfortable typing instead of speaking, while you get to know more about each other. I don't know (I'm laughing at myself a little, sitting here talking about dating....feeling a bit ridiculous. Probably just miss ever doing it myself.)
Anyways, sounds like you're having fun. Thanks for telling me about it.
EL
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