Posted by wishingstar on July 23, 2006, at 19:02:59
In reply to Re: saw Anne on Thurs... long, posted by annierose on July 23, 2006, at 18:49:54
Things werent great with Anne before I left the area either. Laurie is very good (aside from some issues, but no Ts are perfect) and I was afraid she'd become a comparison point that would make me feel worse about Anne, and I do think that has happened. However, I'm not sure if that's a bad thing. The frustration/hurt had been building for a long time.
I know Anne isnt able to help me right now. I dont expect her to be my therapist while I'm seeing Laurie and am out of town. The only reason I went to see her this past week was to talk about an issue between her and I and to clarify what our relationship (or lack thereof) is right now. If no contact is best (and she suggested), I am okay with that and truly do understand it. That wasnt really the hurtful part I guess.
I may go back to Anne once I'm back in town, but I'm not sure it's worth any more frustration. This really has been an issue for awhile. I cant keep hoping to turn her into what I want her to be. I just dont know.
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