Posted by llrrrpp on June 29, 2006, at 11:11:44
In reply to Re: My T got me figured out, I think » rainbutterfly, posted by gardenergirl on June 29, 2006, at 10:11:31
> Me too. I'm still working on some of it. And now some of it is getting transferred (or maybe it's new, I don't know) to my husband. It's coming out more directly now versus passive-aggressively. I suppose that's good, but it's weird and uncomfortable. Sigh
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> Anger is tough.
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> And llrrrpp, I suppose in some ways it's good that T understands well, but I can relate to how it feels to hear it. It can be sort of, um, off-putting at times.
>i was in good spirits, so i was happy to hear that he understood me so well. I think he's quite perceptive. And he makes me laugh, which is nice.
i told my husband about this list of llrrrpp "issues" and he's like "well, duh-- but you've always been like this, even before you were psycho (depressed) so what? Oh, yeah, did you tell him about the time you hurt my feelings by _____?" Um no, honey, you can find a T and talk about your feelings to your T. I explained to husband, that these patterns of respondng to the world might work some of the time, but when I'm under extreme stress, like perhaps now (husband away in military, llrrrpp writing a dissertation) the old ways just aren't good enough. hence depression.
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