Posted by Dinah on June 1, 2006, at 17:40:15
In reply to Please be honest, should I leave my T ?, posted by happyflower on June 1, 2006, at 16:07:32
There are times when I worry about his boundaries, then he pulls them in and I worry about you hurting from that, then other times he seems to redeem himself.
Sounds like two imperfect people trying the best they can to negotiate an inherently loaded relationship. Where do you draw the line between normally imperfect and too imperfect?
I'm not there. I can't say secondhand what's best for you. But I know that I always know when I look honestly at myself if I'm uncomfortable with something in any relationship. Do you feel uncomfortable?
And in the end, it's your therapy. If you're happy with it, does it matter what anyone else says or doesn't say? Unless you think they're right...
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