Re: I feel so pathetic

Posted by Jost on May 28, 2006, at 19:38:45

In reply to Re: I feel so pathetic » Racer, posted by fairywings on May 28, 2006, at 17:18:43

Larry has a point, Racer. Maybe you should give yourself a break.

Maybe you just can argue with it a little and then give yourself permission to ride it out. It ends, if you let it go, or just go with it until it does.
I'm curious: how did the decision get made to buy the car your husband wanted and not the car you did? Is it for the reason suggested? Are you mad at yourself for giving in and now feeling powerless and put down (by him and yourself)?
If so, we all do it--and struggle with standing up for our vision, and values, and just, well, what we want-- for which, by the way, we do have valid reasons-- You're not alone, in that,
Jost

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I feel so pathetic Racer 5/28/06
Re: I feel so empathetic » Racer Larry Hoover 5/28/06
Re: I feel so pathetic » Racer fairywings 5/28/06
Re: I feel so pathetic Jost 5/28/06
Re: I feel so pathetic » Racer ClearSkies 5/28/06
((Racer)) so NOT pathetic. Racer nice. (nm) » Racer muffled 5/28/06
Re: I feel so empathetic » Jost Larry Hoover 5/29/06
Re: I feel so empathetic Jost 5/29/06
Re: I feel so empathetic » Jost Larry Hoover 5/30/06
Re: I feel so empathetic **typo** » Larry Hoover Larry Hoover 5/30/06

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