Posted by orchid on May 12, 2006, at 13:08:03
In reply to Re: Orchid...., posted by curtm on May 11, 2006, at 20:08:30
> Do we obsess about closure? What is closure? What does i feel like? Do we really want to know? Granted it is a goal, but maybe it's not what we would expect it to be and we may be setting ourselves up for dissapointment. I have regrets and hurtful feelings, too, but I grow weary of pushing myself to some existentialism that it almost defeats it's own purpose. Maybe we should find "closure" in not making it such a necessity.
I was just thinking yesterday, that even if my T sent me a mail now and gave me that closure, perhaps it wouldn't really mean much now. After all, I have gone through as much pain as I could. Now what is the point in getting closure?
But also on the side I think closure would be really nice, so that I won't atleast have this regret for a long time. I am not really obsessing about it, but it sure would be nice.
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