Posted by wishingstar on May 9, 2006, at 15:15:37
In reply to Re: T wont stop talking! » wishingstar, posted by antigua on May 9, 2006, at 14:40:46
Oh yes.. definitely. Emotions/feelings are NOT talked about in my family, period. I went through a pretty traumatic time in high school where I was feeling suicidal and no one would help - my parents wouldnt tlak about it or get me help, my school thought I was being manipulative and were quite rude and hurtful.. doesnt sound that bad I guess, but I'm still not over it. It was VERY hard for me. But the answer to your question is a big yes.
Now I'm afraid that maybe I'm overreacting though. She has labeled my frustration with her not hearing me as transference before, so it wouldnt be the first time. Maybe I'm not being as clear as I think I am. I sometimes feel like I'm not even hinting, but telling.. and she misses it.. but I guess its possible what sounds forceful to me is barely even noticable to others. Who knows. It's something to think about.. thanks. :)
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