Posted by Racer on April 3, 2006, at 15:44:38
In reply to Re: New marriage counselor - lecture from my T (long) » Racer, posted by AuntieMel on April 3, 2006, at 15:23:43
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> But - if (just IF) your worst fears are realized, isn't it better to know? Wouldn't it be better to have a plan than to be in limbo?
>NO! lol I think it's much better to keep my head in the sand, so that I don't have to see it...
Seriously, though -- I really am feeling cowardly about this. My T tells me I'm too hard on myself, and all I can think of is, "she just doesn't know..." Of course, she also has some practical suggestions, but my husband has said no to all of them.
Right now, I just noticed that when I think about this, I feel very similarly to how I feel when I get faced with CBT things. Part of me starts to suck back, so that I can just hold everything in without breaking, and another part of me just wants to give up, because no matter how hard I try, it never seems to be enough... Hm... That might be a good topic to talk about this week...
Thanks, all!
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