Posted by fallsfall on January 20, 2006, at 23:07:15
In reply to Re: Transference outside of therapy » fallsfall, posted by Tamar on January 20, 2006, at 19:45:13
Yes, the past still hurts.
Part of the problem is that I feel responsibility towards things that I have no actual responsibility for. So I have no responsibility and no power, and then get hurt because I can't "fix" things that aren't mine to fix in the first place. I would love to save the world.
My previous bosses SHOULD be ashamed of themselves. My therapist pointed out that I surely presented a very tough, together exterior. So it is possible that they didn't know that what they did would hurt me. I almost buy that for the second one, but not the first.
I'm so lucky to have this therapeutic opportunity so I can work on this stuff.
Thanks for your thoughts.
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