Posted by muffled on December 12, 2005, at 16:09:00
In reply to you can't put me back, now! *trigger*, posted by B2chica on December 12, 2005, at 14:51:12
Oh B2, my kid was the same when she came out. She was so f*cking MAD!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Raging.
And we fought aand fought, and I hurt her and she hurt me and it was aLL SO CRAZY. But know it does settle down. Its OK for the kid to be mad. She's got a right to be mad. But you B2, you can hold her back from getting you into something you regret later, you CAN stop her. But let her run a bit. Let her yell and scream. can you goto a beach somewhere, or somewhere downtown where screaming people are ignored, can you punch styrofoam insulation, or just beat a tree with a stick.
Your kids mad, my kid says YA!! Oh, once she settles it'll be better, you can be more whole and not so confused. its the beginning of a good thing B2.SO LET HER RIP little B2, its ok. Big B2, you just keep a bit of a handle on her. Its ok.
If you scared its ok. In fact thats proly a good thing.
Do you have anxiety meds?
Can you call your T?If you truly can't reighn her in (littleone), then you can always hit the hosp. and go temporarily on some meds.
Do what you need to do as long as you not harming youself or anyone else.(((B2))) Take or leave the hugs. Thats ok too.
Wish I could be with you :(Take care,
post away,
Muffly
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