Posted by fairywings on November 23, 2005, at 20:30:38
In reply to Re: Hey about some hugs for Fairy Wings » fairywings, posted by rainbowbrite on November 22, 2005, at 12:30:41
> Im sorry about your anniversary. I would be upset too. But maybe you could re-celebrate? When things have calmed down maybe you could make dinner reservations somewhere special and spend the evening out without stress.
Yes, I'm trying not to get hung up on what happened. My husband is so thoughtful and kind, and I have a tendency to hold a grudge. We are going to go out soon, so that can be our re-celebration. I bought myself some new colored pencils to soothe my pouty inner child.
> I think he was asking if *you* think you have a right to feel annoyed, my t has said this sort of thing to me and what he is trying to find out is whetehr "I" see my feelings as wrong or not justified. He is trying to validate me but it has come accross the otehr way to me so I had to clarify. I would ask him.
>Thanks rain, I never thought of it that way. I will be sure to check that out with him. He's really a sweet guy, I don't think he'd tell me I'm difficult, maybe I was projecting?! ; ) He had to cancel our appt. this week because he's sick. Hope his Thanksgiving isn't ruined.
Thanks for being so kind Rain. I really appreciate your perspective.
FW
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