Why do we develop so much of feelings towards T?

Posted by orchid on November 18, 2005, at 21:08:37

Is it just because we share so much with them?
Or is that because we don't know anything about them and tend to think the highest of them?
If sharing is the reason, we share so much more with our husbands and significant others and friends right? But we don't tend to develop this kind of obsessive feelings.
Maybe is it just because of the fact that we really don't know anything about our Ts that makes us get such intense feelings?
Also any tips on how to redirect these feelings towards husband? Is that even healthy to develop such obsessive and intense feelings in real life relationship?

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Why do we develop so much of feelings towards T? orchid 11/18/05
Re: Why do we develop so much of feelings towards T? » orchid alexandra_k 11/18/05
Re: Why do we develop so much of feelings towards T? Susan47 11/19/05
Re: Why do we develop so much of feelings towards T? » alexandra_k orchid 11/19/05
Re: Why do we develop so much of feelings towards T? » Susan47 orchid 11/19/05
Re: Why do we develop so much of feelings towards T? » orchid alexandra_k 11/19/05
Maybe husbands should first become our Ts :-) (nm) » alexandra_k orchid 11/19/05
Re: Why do we develop so much of feelings towards T? » orchid one woman cine 11/21/05
Re: Why do we develop so much of feelings towards T? » one woman cine orchid 11/22/05
Re: Why do we develop so much of feelings towards T? » orchid Tamar 11/22/05

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