Posted by LadyBug on October 29, 2005, at 11:41:09
In reply to Re: What I would like you all to know » LadyBug, posted by allisonross on October 29, 2005, at 8:16:57
What has pushed me closer to leaving my marriage. It isn't just one thing, but maybe the push is. He cheated on me about a month ago, with an employee he worked with, he got fired over it!!! And he was drinking. I won't go into details, but they didn't "do it" the intent was there still the same. Now I have no insurance and don't know how I am going to get my meds........along with him having other problems I've had enough of. I can't trust him at all and I'm tired of living in a marriage where the trust is completly gone and has been for years.
Thank goodness I have my therapist to help me sort through what I want to do. My family would like to see me leave as they see him as abusive to me and my girls by the choices he makes in his life. It is not physical just emotional. He is so self destructive and it comes down and hurts us so much. He's been fired from 3 jobs, but this last one was and is hard for me to handle. He was invloved with a girl 20 years younger than him. I've told him for months to leave her alone but he obviously didn't care about my feelings. He blames it on her, oh give me a break. As my therapist says it has to be at least 50-50, it takes 2 to tango.
I'm waiting for a full time job to open up in about a month, if I get it, the decision will be mine if I can leave and take care of my 2 girls.
I'm way off the subject here, sorry.
I hope to read your article this weekend when I have some time. I'll write more soon.
You are very friendly! That's awesome.
LadyBug
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