Posted by orchid on September 27, 2005, at 16:31:01
In reply to Re: check in with my ex T once? » orchid, posted by Annierose on September 27, 2005, at 16:05:47
I did understand what you meant.
By dropping in, I didn't mean an unanounced visit. I meant, going for a office visit with prior appointment of course. I wouldn't go even to friends house without informing :-)
I am not so sure if she would love to hear from me. I would rather think not, even though we had an extremely good and amicable relationship and terminated in very pleasant terms. I have come to think of Ts as particularly emotionless people - perhaps an acquired trait, because it is needed for their job. At best she will be indifferent.
So I am probably not going to bother visiting her either. And for all I know, she might not even be willing to give me an appointment even if I tried - from my prior experience.
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