Posted by fairywings on September 27, 2005, at 12:20:35
In reply to Intense session, posted by crushedout on September 26, 2005, at 15:10:57
I understand this feeling so well, and it's so incredible that you can share this so openly with your T, even though she can't "scoop you up", it's so great that's she's willing to acknowledge how powerful it is.
We have a two year old, and when I snuggle into his soft little head, sometimes I imagine I'm him, and I'm being cuddled and loved. I have some transference with my husband, he's so incredible with me, and he knows I feel this way, and he's acknowledged that he can't be my fahter, but he can try to give me as much as he can. Sometimes when he holds me, I close my eyes and imagine I'm little, and I'm being held, and it feel so good. but at the same time it hurts, which is why I want to be sure to do it right with our kids cause you only get one chance!
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