Posted by gardenergirl on September 11, 2005, at 9:34:33
In reply to Appointment on Monday?, posted by Shortelise on September 11, 2005, at 1:17:56
Hi ShortE,
I've had moods like that, and the concept of all those folks coming to visit wouldn't help, if it were me. I'm glad they are staying at the neighbor's house, though.I'm with the others, in that I would call to confirm. Maybe the person who makes the calls was out sick?
And you know, lately I've been comparing my hubby to my T. At some point, I'm not going to have my T to be the main source of support and to provide me with the unconditional positive regard, comfort, and reassurance. So I've been trying a tiny bit to share how I'm feeling with my hubby. And surprise surprise, he's been helpful and supportive most of the time. I think it also helps him to "get it", versus making the assumptions he does that are less flattering to me (i.e. she's lazy, she doesn't care, she doesn't want to spend time with me, etc.)
I know not every SO will be supportive, but in my case, it's been a very good thing, and it's brought us closer. I'm sure it doesn't hurt that he's started therapy.
I hope tomorrow goes well.
gg
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