Posted by Shortelise on September 10, 2005, at 0:31:28
In reply to Re: Lying Therapist » Shortelise, posted by cricket on September 9, 2005, at 16:04:11
Cricket, all of that sounds awful. I would not last two sessions with him. My dear, we all deserve to be respected, not shut out, not judged.
There is no such thing as "too sensitive".
Cricket, I hate him. I am porjecting onto you the feelings I would have if my T did the same crap you say your t is doing. The difference is that I would try now try to stay in the moment and do a blow by blow of how I felt as he did everything he was doing. See what I mean?
There have been times when I have dounbted my T's abilitites, and I have toldhim so, and apologised for doubting. He has not wavered. He has not become defensive. A good T knows it's not really about him. Oh, hell, I don't know what it is my T knows, but he's is a good T and he would never, ever treat me as you are being treated. Mine just gets a little too wrapped up in some sort of ideal of treatment sometimes, I think, and loses sight of the fact that I am not always up to it.
What are your real options, Cricket?
ShortE
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