Posted by daisym on August 7, 2005, at 1:33:13
In reply to Re: Sometimes a fly is not just a fly... (long) » Daisym, posted by All Done on August 7, 2005, at 0:50:26
I argued that the attachment had more potential negatives than positives. And I listed them: 1)I am too attached, so I am bound to overwhelm and annoy him. (Like the fly, he said.) 2)It makes leaving sessions really hard and I often am in tears, not a very graceful exit. (He said I don't have to be graceful, it's therapy.) 3)The intensity of it scares me, because I'm not sure what I wouldn't do to keep it.(He said I'll have to trust him to hold the line on this one, even if I don't trust myself.) 4) It keeps me coming to therapy too much. (He said he doesn't think focusing on myself "for once" is a bad thing.)
Right now my favorite cake is funnel cake from the Fair, but usually it is german chocolate. But I'm easy, I'll eat almost anything.
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