Posted by daisym on July 24, 2005, at 18:12:34
In reply to Woud my ex T remember me? it's been 6 months, posted by pinkeye on July 24, 2005, at 15:28:13
You sound so wistful...like, "did I matter at all to him?"
I'm sure you did. I think he must have cared for you to have become so connected to him. Something in him touched you and for this to have happened, he opened a jpart of himself to you.
You don't sound like an easily forgotten person. Would it help to imagine yourself sending thoughts out to him and those thoughts gently tapping him on the ear and making him notice something that reminds him of you...some unique thing you said, or did or collect. Hold on to that, but try to let the rest go. Find peace if you can. I hate to hear you suffering so.
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