Posted by Shortelise on July 23, 2005, at 14:04:08
In reply to Affair with mentor, trigger for T, posted by rabidreader on July 23, 2005, at 11:58:57
RR, in the name of getting, um, sexual satisfaction, people do the wildly inappropriate things! Some profs find it hard to resist the adoration of students. Your prof therapized you? Add that to his list of sins, if you like, but my view is that we have to take those experiences for what they were worth. The bad with the good, y'know?
In blaming, finding fault with what someone else has done, I find that I am trying not to take responsibilty for my part. Dammit.
Of course this brings up the same sort of feelings when it comes to your T!! But it doesn't mean you were hoping to have an affair with him, does it? I mean, maybe you were, but could it be that it's intimacy the two realtionships have in common? I find therapy is very intimate, more intimate in fact than some sexual relationships I have had. I am certainly better known to my T, more understood.
ShortE
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