Posted by rubenstein on July 21, 2005, at 19:28:49
In reply to Thanks.., posted by pinkeye on July 21, 2005, at 16:54:33
> Thanks both of you..
> She is just awesome!!! Damn smart and intelligent.
>
> She also remarked, how I always tend to view myself as being helpless, and how I always wished to be rescued.. She said I keep wishing that my ex T would rescue me.. and that I have to realize it is not going to happen. She said I always have a tendency to view myself as being a helpless little child victim and that I need to stop viewing myself like that.. and stop wishing for a rescuer to come and solve my problems.. I said I need someone in that role to give me approval.. that I can't go on on my own.. she said it is that way, only because I think that way. That I am capable of functioning on my own without getting support from men. That I infact, am better off by myself, without the men I have in my life..I often feel like that myself. Sounds like you had a good but difficult session. I will be thinking of you in the coming weeks. Take care
Rubenstein
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