Posted by fallsfall on June 13, 2005, at 12:45:36
In reply to feeling totally frusterated!, posted by happyflower on June 13, 2005, at 11:28:41
When he says that you are critical, he might not be saying that you should *change* what you are doing. He might just be labeling what you Are doing. Perhaps you need to spend some time talking about how you feel critical, and when (in your past) you have felt critical.
I am almost positive that he doesn't want you to stop being honest with him in order to sound less critical.
Ask *him* how you should deal with this. These are important issues to talk about in therapy.
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