Posted by happyflower on June 11, 2005, at 18:09:32
In reply to Re: Scared, ready to expose my skeltons to T » happyflower, posted by Tamar on June 11, 2005, at 18:00:31
> I can’t add much to what other people have said, except that everything you said in your first post resonated with me. I’ve felt a bit bored in my marriage for quite a while. And I feel really guilty about it. And I didn’t want to b*tch about my husband to my T (or anyone else).
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I tried to talk to my husband this weekend about "us" and he gets so insecure when I say that I am not being me and I need to do things to make me happy, not just the family.> I really hate feeling vulnerable, but as it turned out my husband rose to the challenge. Things are improving for us. I still don’t feel things are perfect, but at least we’re able to communicate better.
I think that is great to hear, that he rose to the challenge. That says a lot about how much he cares for you! :)
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> I like your idea of advising your T to get a good night’s sleep! And I really hope your session goes well.
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Yeah, I would love to call him, but I MADE myself NOT call him these 2 weeks between session. I need to lose my grip of neediness.
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