Posted by Dinah on May 26, 2005, at 5:34:02
In reply to Goodbye..., posted by Pfinstegg on May 25, 2005, at 22:21:57
I don't know what to say.
You've meant so much to me, and taught me so much about connections and brain activity. As a start only.
I can't help but think that I've failed in empathy or attunement somewhere that you would feel lonely or not to know who to say goodbye to.
I have enjoyed you so very much over the years. I really can't tell you how much you've meant to me. I know that lately there has been some misunderstanding on my part of your therapy experiences, but surely misunderstandings and corrections and rapprochements are part of any relationship?
If you ever decide to try here again, I hope you'll feel free to let me know how I've let you down, and give me hints how to do better, and allow for rapprochement. Isn't that what we've been learning all this time? To learn to ask for what we need? And to learn to give others a chance to give it?
I don't mean to make this about me. And I'm sure it's not.
But because you, Pfinstegg, mean something important to me, Dinah, I have a desire to correct whatever went wrong between us.
If you ever wish to contact me off board, you know my email.
poster:Dinah
thread:502953
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