Posted by daisym on May 26, 2005, at 0:54:44
In reply to Re: Age states and attachment » daisym, posted by Tamar on May 25, 2005, at 17:43:45
Thank you for that nice message. I think you are right about the boundaries, so far he has changed anything. And we talked intensely about a particular abuse situation today and he didn't pull back or look uncomfortable about the details. And there were some pretty demanding questions straight at him and he took it all well.
As far as love goes, I'll have to think about that. It is scary and I think potentially painful to admit loving someone who can't possibly love you back. Perhaps it is unavoidable.
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