Posted by JenStar on May 25, 2005, at 18:47:11
In reply to Voices, posted by cricket on May 25, 2005, at 9:23:05
hi Cricket,
I also wanted to say that maybe your T is just tryng to feel out the best way to work with you. It sounds like he's giving you a chance to voice the different voices and see what comes out. I wouldn't worry about offending him, even if you say harsh things. He should be trained & able to deal with that. If he can't, he's definitely not the right T for you. Maybe the tearing paper was a way of thinking aloud? Sometimes I tear or fold things or draw intricate doodles when I'm sort of concentrating - it helps me focus sort of.Could you ask him what he meant by tearing the paper? Ask if he's be offended to hear negative stuff? Maybe that would clear the way to a more open session. But if he doesn't respond well, that would be a sign that he's not right for you, no matter how well-known he is.
take care!
JenStar
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