Posted by pinkeye on May 24, 2005, at 12:47:33
In reply to Age states and attachment, posted by daisym on May 24, 2005, at 0:46:22
Daisy,
I am in the same situation as well - except in the reverse order. I used to be like an adult towards my T (now my ex) and now I feel like a child.I have been through some form of mild csa as well - and I can relate to how confusing it feels often - whether you are a kid or an adult - what you are supposed to be?
And I am having frighteningly confusing feelings now towards my ex T - some childish, some adult, some frightened and scared, some trusting and want to be close, some want to be as far away from him as possible. There is so much of confusion and I don't know how to make sense out of it all myself. And I don't even have him around now to tell him.
But I do trust your therapist fully. He has been extremely good with you and has proven his worth so much. So I would only think that you can trust him fully. And that he would know what is right for you and how to work it out. I trust your T so much because of his extreme care towards you which he has shown so many times in the past.
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