Posted by pinkeye on May 17, 2005, at 16:26:02
In reply to Re: ask yourself this... » pinkeye, posted by sunny10 on May 17, 2005, at 8:59:40
Thanks Sunny.
But my husband is really a nice guy. I would say even better than me as a person.
That is what makes me think twice.
Maybe it is just me who is making him angry. I really don't know the right approach. If I tell my T here, she says walk away from the marriage. But I know in India it is lot more tolerated, and people won't divorce people just because they get physically violent.
I wish I could tell my ex T and get his opinion. He might know better. He knew it used to happen before, but I didn't really make a big issue out of it. So I guess he thought it was an one time affair. And my husband is very stressed now, and I am hoping he will change if he gets a chance to live in India. I don't know.
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