Posted by alexandra_k on April 24, 2005, at 21:04:16
In reply to Re: If I were a therapist.... » pinkeye, posted by messadivoce on April 24, 2005, at 17:22:10
Oh wow!
Okay, so I am pretty messed up over a termination myself but I just had to say
I LOVED YOUR POST!
It cracked me up!
The tone was so perfect!
I love it!I'm not sure about the helping and hurting part. I don't know. The t's I have worked with did everything they could to DISCOURAGE transference - but then that didn't work out so well. I still got attached even though I tried my hardest not to. I am currently grieving over stupid old pea-doc who lied to me and f*cked me around a hell of a lot. So sometimes we get attached DESPITE them. I don't know. If you care then I suppose you do open yourself up to be hurt. That is why trust is so hard and can be so fragile. But I think we do need to care. Because thats what makes it meaningful. And thats what helps at the end of the day. But I don't really know. Maybe I am just talking out of my *ss...
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