Posted by pinkeye on April 24, 2005, at 12:51:28
In reply to Re: Stressed so much (long) » pinkeye, posted by Dinah on April 23, 2005, at 0:02:25
hmm. I know. When kids enter into the picutre it is going to be a much more of a roller coaster ride. God help me.
But I like this guy - inspite of everything. There are a whole lot of issues between us, and we get angry and frustrated at each other, but at the end of day, somehow we manage to remain affectionate towards each other. If I had had so much problems with anyone else, the relationship would have came to an end long long back. But with my husband, inspite of everything that has happened, we still manage to be quite unconditionally affecionate towards each other. That is what surprises me. Nowadays I am thinking maybe this relationship is just meant to be for us. He is a quite affectionate person, and I like that a lot.. He doesn't apply reasoning, evaluate my actions, think if I deserve it or not etc.. and I like that so much. My dad alaways used to judge me all the time. If I do something wrong, he wouldn't be affecitonate.. he would only criticize me.. And I used to hate it. Now with my husband, whatever tantrums I throw and however bad I behave, he seems to accept me. And I do the same for him. So that kind of keeps us together. And I feel he is somewhat a nice person at heart.
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