Posted by Dinah on April 24, 2005, at 10:49:07
In reply to Re: Tomorrow's the day - unless he cancels » Dinah, posted by annierose on April 24, 2005, at 6:33:00
I don't actually like going on weekends. There's a guard downstairs and you have to wait there until my therapist arrives, which means we often have to ride up in the elevator together. The place I usually park is closed, so I have to find parallel parking on the street, and I hate parallel parking. And I feel really really awful about taking his personal time, even though I meet with people on the weekend myself sometimes and don't resent it. So I understand the concept.
But I really appreciate that he offers. I'm sure he offers it to all his clients when the situation calls for it. And he *had* forgottten that ever since we started twice a week therapy and probably before we have *always* bookended our sessions. I think it's been ever since he took up that other job that brings him out of town frequently and unpredictably. Because I wasn't there the week before he left, he just totally forgot me. So I felt totally justified in agreeing to Sunday when he offered. But it was always my intention to offer to cancel unless I was a quivering wreck.
He's listed at the website of his other job now as part of the coaching team. :( I suppose that means he'll be going away more often again.
I HATE HIS OTHER JOB. IF HE CARED ABOUT ME, HE WOULDN'T GO AWAY UP TO ONE WEEK OUT OF FOUR. IT'S NOT FAIR.
poster:Dinah
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