Posted by cricket on April 22, 2005, at 7:40:36
In reply to Sublimation and Subjugation, posted by Susan47 on April 22, 2005, at 7:02:31
Hi Susan47,
I can understand your pain. To have this unrequited need for more than a year must be awful.
I currently have a T who I long for and who at least lately seems to hate me.
How did your relationship with your T end, if you don't mind my asking? You said, "But then of course I went too far, because I had this feeling develop, a feeling you're not supposed to have for someone who's off limits." Did he terminate you because of your feelings? That sounds unethical, to say the least.
I too am struggling with the feeling that I am just not good enough. That's the message my T gives me. And even though I can't take my own advice right now, I would say don't believe it about yourself. Don't believe it for a second.
I think that there are some mighty big egos in the psychotherapy industry and some of them have no idea how much havoc they can wreck on a person.Maybe in the next lifetime, they'll come back as our clients :)
Take care of yourself.
poster:cricket
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