Posted by pinkeye on April 19, 2005, at 18:43:25
In reply to Bad Session with T, posted by cricket on April 19, 2005, at 17:04:46
If you feel you are not treated warmly by your T, and if you feel you need it, then I think it is time to give up on this one and move on to a better one.
My current T is pretty cold - in fact I haven't seen anyone as cold as she - but I don't need any warmth from a T right now. In fact I prefer the coldness, because it saves me from heartbreak later on.. But I did receive a fair amount of warmth and caring on a professional level with my ex T and I desperately needed that at that time. A cold T at that time would have just not worked out for me.
And besides, if your T is really cold after 3 years and has been that way for sometime, I don't think it is really worth fighting for. Mabye someone else more empathetic and willing to be open to you and who would like you will be good for you.
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