Posted by Susan47 on April 17, 2005, at 12:47:10
...that are usually left unsaid? Like, why are you wearing perfume today, you've never worn it before .. and, that's a lovely outfit. Are you going somewhere special, or did you wear it for me? Oh, you wore it for me .. why? Because I'm important to you. Yes, you're important to me, too. I care deeply about people, or I wouldn't be sitting here, across from you .. looking straight into your eyes.. not afraid to make eye contact .. but you keep looking away. Tell me, why do you look away? Is it just me you look away from, or is it others as well? Who?
Because Therapists don't seem to know, or care sometimes, that it's the things you DON'T say that are the important ones.
Sigh.
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