Posted by PM80 on April 15, 2005, at 14:04:09
In reply to Re: Anybody afraid of growing up? » PM80, posted by pinkeye on April 15, 2005, at 13:43:35
It is difficult not to do this, but sometimes it is better to let people make their own choices and live with them. You are naturally the mediator, but you may find that eventually there are some things that you can step outside of. It comes down to respecting and having enough trust in each person to let them work their own problems out. Obviously, you can't do this in all situations, but sometimes things get better when they are exposed a little. You are not responsible for others' actions. It is okay, healthly even, for you to acknowledge this in your own mind and in your actions.
Just my experience. And it definitely has helped me, just within myself.
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