Posted by pinkeye on March 14, 2005, at 14:08:48
In reply to A question of protocol, posted by Dinah on March 13, 2005, at 11:47:18
I didn't read all the subsequent replies to this post Dinah, so I am sorry if somebody else has said the same thing.
When it comes to therapy for your son, what matters the most is him. Not you and not your husband. So, even if it means going behind your husband's back a little to help your son, do it. Find out some way of doing it - email, call, or a visit with your son's therapist. You can even perhaps ask to see your son't therapist once in a while just by yourself, and your husband can do the same as well.. my parents met my ex T without me in the room even when I was an adult. So by all means find out a way to do it. It is not going behind anyone's back. You are just helping your son.
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