Posted by messadivoce on February 19, 2005, at 2:04:37
In reply to Re: Little Earthquakes (Life Sucks Eggs), posted by sunny10 on February 18, 2005, at 10:03:00
As I said in an above post, I broke down and called today. She seemed glad to hear from me. I asked about seeing her again and she told me that she wasn't sure of the rules about seeing clients when a T doesn't even have formal practice. She said that if the two of us were to meet, it would have to be "legitimate and professional." So from that I take it that we cannot just meet for coffee. Which is good and bad, I guess. I don't know if I'll get closure, but at the same time, her boundaries are still there.
She told me that other people have inquired about seeing her privately, and she is going to look into the details of having her own practice. She said, laughing (so good to hear her laugh!), "Well, I need to put some energy towards a job search anyway!"
It has been suggested to me that I start over with a new university T. However, I am 2 months from graduating with a degree, so I'd hardly get in there, and we'd be done. I know I could not spill everything again right away to a new person, it takes me a long time. Right now I'm just trying to take an hour at a time.
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