Posted by Fallen4MyT on January 11, 2005, at 19:12:14
In reply to Re: Therapy Rage! » Fallen4MyT, posted by rainbowbrite on January 11, 2005, at 18:07:56
Sorry I left for a while to exercise. I am still thinking at least give him say 3 more sessions and tell him point blank you FEEL <stress that word> like he is brushing the issues you want to work on aside...scary sounding but its easy once youre thinking hey I am paying for this :) Maybe if it is easier write it out and hand it to him. Maybe? he thinks you are afraid to go too far in that area or he is afraid it might be a bad idea for you right now but till you ask you will not know..Sometimes T's see danger for the client and want to feel around before they jump back in on that topic as not to overwhelme you but sometimes too it is there own issues....so please ask why you two have not been back to that....BTW, you cannot drive ME anywhere I am already at hahahahaha....
> Thanks, Yeah, you make sense. I understand what you are saying.
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> but does it sound strange that my T doesn't really want me to get into my issues? I am serioulsy considering bailing on the relationship since the whole point is to heal and I don't seem to have an invitation to share. does that make any sense? do you think this is normal, I always got the impression that T's kind of dug for info (in a gentle way). Well mine sort of mildly dug and then when i opened up it has been kindof pushed aside. and in the beginning my T even said that this was going to have to be talked about and delt with. I am sorry if i am driving anyone nuts with this but i don't understand what is going on and im too afraid to ask becasue of what a sensitive topic it is. I think i am being really repetitve in my posts...ill stop now.
> Is it obvious im driving myself nuts over this??
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