Posted by Aphrodite on January 9, 2005, at 15:27:09
In reply to There are things I'm reluctant to tell therapist, posted by Dinah on January 9, 2005, at 4:32:17
Wow, I was surprised by your post b/c I never picked up on this about your T before. However, I'm sure in his job, he's heard everything.
> But I know he's relatively ummm.... orthodox, shall I say, in terms of sexuality especially. Not judgemental exactly. I wouldn't say that. But rather self consciously nonjudgemental.Just curious. . . but if you're willing to share, what's an example of this?
Have you called him out on his "mmmm . . ." reponses? My T gets so upset when I bring up much later that I didn't say X or Y because I assumed he had differing thoughts. He always says I won't know until I ask, and he's great about being forthcoming. Sometimes, he suprises me when his truth is hurtful, but I'd rather be worried about something I know is real instead of what I am guessing.
But, knowing you, you have based this on something concrete.
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