Posted by fluffycat on December 13, 2004, at 23:02:09
Hi,
I told my pdoc that I have feelings for him. I'm not always good at hiding things from those I respect and trust but I guess I really just wanted to clear the air, mostly, for myself.
I meet with my T tomorrow, but I was curious to hear opinions from others who have experienced this on the following things, if anyone minds sharing.
I told him one reason I was afraid to bring it up was b/c I didn't want to seem unprofessional. I guess I meant I didn't want to cross any boundaries. He seemed kind of perplexed by this and asked why? Strange question, in my mind. Am I supposed to be crossing boundaries? I usually err on the side of caution. Boring, eh?
Also, he told me he had 'suspected' my feelings. Thing is, I never flirted, wore provocative clothing, asked personal questions, etc. He agreed I didn't do anything even 'remotely' untoward. I only recently developed these feelings. So, what made him 'suspect', I wonder? There was nothing to suspect. It almost makes me think, "what an ego," in response but I know I'm just hurting right now.
*Thanks* for reading, I guess I'm just trying to sort some junk out in my mind.
poster:fluffycat
thread:429221
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