Posted by Poet on November 8, 2004, at 0:29:53
In reply to Re: Struggling to talk about childhood abuse » Poet, posted by daisym on November 5, 2004, at 16:29:40
Hi Daisy,
I think that writing it down might be the only way that I can do this. I know that if I asked her not to mention it until I bring it up (danger is that I may not bring it up) she would respect it.
I don't want to do 20 questions with her until she guesses right. That's how she got what little she knows.
I know that I need to talk/write about this and that burying it is a short term solution. With Thanksgiving a few weeks away, I don't know if I can bury it deep enough for anger and resentment not to come out. Family gatherings are hostile enough without me losing it. Loving, we are not.
Thanks so much for your help. I know how much of a struggle you are in right now.
Poet
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