Posted by Cass on October 6, 2004, at 10:17:14
In reply to Re: Sex drive, posted by shortelise on October 5, 2004, at 23:15:37
Hi Shortlie,
Thanks for your reply. I'm past my thirties now. My sex drive disappeared for some latter years of my thirties, and it was extremely high during my 20s and my early thirties.
I suppose you're right about not feeling guilty about fantasies. I just feel that they are interfering with life a little bit. This sex drive is a mixed blessing.
When my sex drive went away for years, I was really suprised about how much better I felt about myself. Strange, huh? Like I said, I felt so in charge of myself. I started to feel like an adult.
I'm looking for a new therapist right now. So I guess I'll have to talk about my sexual identity with her. Maybe I have some things to work out. It is nice feeling all this excitement and pleasure. For some reason, it just seems to come with a price.
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