Posted by crazymaisie on October 2, 2004, at 15:19:59
In reply to Re: the trouble with honesty » crazymaisie, posted by Daisym on October 2, 2004, at 12:51:34
thanks, Daisy.
i think you're right about the role reversal. and now, of course, i'm wondering if i have manipulated the situation where i can now take care of her, which would be so much more the way i 'do' relationships. it was difficult to watch her cry and not be able to offer comfort. also, i think the phone call rule comes from a call i made last week where i didn't leave enough details and she said she got really stressed about it, thinking i might think she doesn't care enough because she wasn't sure what i was talking about. (god i hope she never reads this site)
i'll so my best to organise my thoughts and talk to her about it next week. thanks for replying
maisie
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