Posted by rubenstein on October 2, 2004, at 10:12:09
In reply to Re: Phone Policies » Daisym, posted by Skittles on October 1, 2004, at 23:23:41
> Thank you, thank you, thank you for your post. Hearing her voice/just talking to her is EXACTLY what I want. Why is it so hard to admit that to myself and even harder to accept it as okay?? You hit that on the head too - I fear being a pain in the a$$. My mother always told me I was "so damn demanding." I don't think I was, but now it's one of the things I fear most, so in turn I ask for nothing (because I that's what I deserve??). It all goes back to not wanting to be a pain in the a$$.
I agree this is exactly what I fear as well. Thanks for this thread, everyone, I called my therapist for the first time last week and I am still feeling guilty about it....even though he was great about the whole thing...this thread has really helped.:)
Rubenstein
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