Posted by Dinah on September 20, 2004, at 12:26:18
In reply to Re: Daisy and Aphrodite » Aphrodite, posted by Pfinstegg on September 20, 2004, at 12:20:28
I think it makes perfect sense. When I say I'm securely attached (relatively at least) recall that I've been in therapy nine years, and had intense attachment from my emotional self, no attachment from my rational self, and no trust from either side for at least five of those years.
The really secure trusting attachment is so new that you can probably see the difference between when we started conversing and now. And it's *still* only on the part of my emotional self. My rational self now has a fair but not enormous degree of trust but not much attachment.
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