Posted by ghost on July 12, 2004, at 23:44:06
In reply to What do I want? (just rambling), posted by pinkeye on July 12, 2004, at 19:43:16
i know what you mean, i've been in relationships that often ended just because i wasn't attracted any more... my last significant other was a wonderful person, a sweet and caring person, but we just didn't "click" any more. i often worry if the fact that i get bored easy is a bad sign, or if i just haven't found the right person.
3 years is about when the "fun" newlywed part of the marriage is over, and it's very normal to feel the way you feel. it's just a matter now of you sorting out whether or not you're unhappy in your marriage or your husband or what.
the question i often ask myself in these relationships is "do i love this person? and if i do, am i *IN* love with this person?" loving and being in love are two different things, i think.
good luck...
ghost
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