Posted by fallsfall on June 27, 2004, at 15:25:52
In reply to Re: I am sorry » fallsfall, posted by justyourlaugh on June 27, 2004, at 14:07:56
Wow, JYL, your post has certainly taken me by surprise.
I did not say (or imply, as far as I can tell) that Believe was not "focusing on learning". I DID mean to imply that I thought that s/he was focusing MORE on seeking punishment than s/he was on learning. I based this assumption on his/her own statement "All I wanted was a cyber spanking from Dr. Bob (transference much, huh?)" If I misinterpreted his/her post I certainly apologize to him/her.
I guess I'm also confused as to which points of view you think that s/he and I disagree on.
It was certainly not my intention to be intolerant of his/her views (although I do have a tendency to believe that if people disagree with me that they are "wrong" and I am "right" - this is something I work very hard on, and still have a long way to go with...). My intention was to welcome him/her to Babble and to encourage him/her to look for support here. I guess it didn't come across the way I wanted it to (since, at a minimum, you got the opposite message from my post).
So, my deepest apologies to Believe. I thought his/her apology was really wonderful, and I hope that s/he decides to be a regular poster.
poster:fallsfall
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