Posted by Dr. Bob on June 22, 2004, at 16:27:31
In reply to Re: New Poster/Help -Awfully Painful Termination (long » 10derHeart, posted by Dinah on June 20, 2004, at 8:37:48
Re: New Poster/Help -Awfully Painful Termination ( » 10derHeart
Posted by Raindancer on June 21, 2004, at 18:49:47
In reply to New Poster/Help -Awfully Painful Termination (long, posted by 10derHeart on June 19, 2004, at 11:47:15
Hello, I'm so sorry you are in such pain and my thoughts and prayers are with you. There isn't really anything I can add to what Pegasus has said - she writes from experience and with great thoughtfulness and sincerity. Your relationship with your T has been so special in your life and both of you will be changed because of it. No-one can take it away from you - it's yours for ever. I agree with the others that you would feel better if you could talk about your feelings with someone else to ease the sharpness of your grief. I shall be thinking of you constantly. Keep posting. Everyone here cares very much. Warm Hugs. Raindancer.
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Gratitude isn't a strong enough word..
Posted by 10derHeart on June 21, 2004, at 21:57:30
In reply to Re: New Poster/Help -Awfully Painful Termination ( » 10derHeart, posted by Raindancer on June 21, 2004, at 18:49:47
Thanks to you all.You responded so thoughtfully, openly and quickly, and to a total stranger...wow! I have things to say to each of you, but so busy for next 1-2 days w/work I can't do you justice..so it must wait a bit. I am overwhelmed – in the good sense of that word – with the warmth, acceptance and understanding. And to think I was so insecure about posting. I will print out all of these and re-read them for comfort in the next tough days. Little less tearful today and more centered, but see T. tomorrow (2nd to last time) so that will be a trigger to a wave of sadness afterwards, no doubt. Wish me strength to say and ask what I need from him, instead of just sitting there, crying, with this huge ache in my chest..<sigh> 10derHeart
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