Posted by DaisyM on June 18, 2004, at 16:16:18
In reply to Dealing with uncertainty?, posted by Klokka on June 18, 2004, at 12:06:40
My two cents, for what it's worth, is that talking about your parents may have triggered off this huge need to know where your Therapist is and how you can touch base with him. When we go to old places in our soul, the younger feelings of being unable to tolerate uncertainty come out. And graduation places you in a major place of uncertainty!
Life changes are hard. Therapy is hard. You are combining them so of course you feel torn up. Don't apologize for that!! I think it is amazing that you articulated so well what you are feeling and what support you need.
If writing works for you, start a journal. And post here. It really helps to have this connection because it is available 24/7, you can help and be helped at the same time.
And I think you should talk in therapy how you are feeling outside of therapy. This is a big clue that you've hit upon a painful, but probably important subject.
I'm glad you are here.
Daisy
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