Posted by All Done on April 22, 2004, at 1:38:44
In reply to wait, you mean i'm not all better? » fallsfall, posted by karen_kay on April 21, 2004, at 22:02:57
Hey, kk. I must say, I was really hoping you would get an individual session from Bubba, but since it doesn't seem he will do that, I wish you would discuss it with his supervisor or perhaps seek advice from a different therapist. Going to group for Bubba doesn't seem like a good idea to me and therapy is supposed to be for YOU and about YOU.
About helping others to solve your own problems, I can only tell you my own experience. I spent about 25 years putting others before myself. I did everything I could to make everyone else happy. Two noticeable things came out of that behavior. One, everyone wasn't happy. Two, I had a breakdown that resulted in severe depression and I have never been quite the same. Don't bury your problems. I can assure you, they will *not* just go away.
Please take care of yourself, sweetie.
L
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